What Makes A Perfect Partner..

Someone who knows what you need before you say it.

Someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry.

Someone who truly listens when you have something to say.

Someone that's there for you during the good and bad times.

Someone who is caring .

Someone who loves you with all their heart and soul.

Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display.

Someone who is honest.

Someone you can trust them like a sibling, confide in like a friend but most of all, love as the great lover they are.

Someone who is open and responsive.

Someone who is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs.

Someone who knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship.

Someone who understands listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important.

Someone who's there for you no matter what.

Someone who is trustful.

Someone who is a friend.

Someone who gives a shoulder to cry on.

Someone with a great sense of humour.

Someone who has things in common with you.

Someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.


Someone with a constant open ear, open heart, and open mind to accept and love people for who the really are.

Someone who will always be there to support your ideas without argument and love you for everything that you are.

Someone that can get a point across without yelling.

Someone that remembers all the cute stupid stuff you love.

Someone that has a personality with qualities you don't have yourself, but admire greatly in them.

Someone who realizes you're two separate people, and appreciates the differences.

Someone who can sense a mood problem, and not take it personally.

Someone who understands the difference between PMS, and a real problem.

Someone who can make you happy when your sad.

Someone who tells you the truth even if you don't want to hear it.

Someone who will not hurt you intentionally.

Someone who is a sweet, romantic person who cherishes you no matter what.

Someone that you can laugh with.

Someone who you can feel comfortable with and that you don't care what kind of weird stuff they see you do because you know they will still love you no matter what.

Someone who will love you in spite of your little idiosyncrasies.

Someone that would do anything to show how much they care.

Someone who is a great pal, a great kisser, and a great lover!

Someone who allows you to be yourself around them.

Someone who will respect you.

Someone who cherishes your hopes and is kind to your dreams.

Someone who knows you're not perfect, but treats you as though you are.

Someone who listens with their heart and is your source of inspiration

Hold The Hand of The Person Who Loves You

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge।

The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,

"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river।"

The little girl said, "No, Dad। You hold my hand."

"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.

"If I hold your hand and something happens to me,

chances are that I may let your hand go.

But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,

you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings.

The Ones That Care

The following is the philosophy of Charles Schultz, the creator of the "Peanuts" comic strip. You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just read the e-mail straight through, and you'll get the point.

1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.

2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.

3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America.

4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.

5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winner for best actor and actress.

6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.


How did you do?

The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. These are no second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners .

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Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:

1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.

2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.

3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.

4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.

5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.


Easier?


The lesson: The people who make a difference in your life are not only the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care .

Balance Sheet of Life

Our Birth is our Opening Balance
Our Death is our Closing Balance
Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets
Heart is our Current Asset
Soul is our Fixed Asset
Brain is our Fixed Deposit
Thinking is our Current Account
Achievements are our Capital
Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade
Friends are our General Reserves
Values & Behaviour are our Goodwill
Patience is our Interest Earned
Love is our Dividend
Children are our Bonus Issues
Education is Brands / Patents
Knowledge is our Investment
Experience is our Premium Account
The Aim should be to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately and
The Goal should be to get the Best Presented Accounts Award

Inspiring Poem - Don't Quit

When things go wrong as they sometimes will;
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill;
When the funds are low, and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but have to sigh;
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but do not quit.

Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit-
It's when things go wrong that you must not quit.

~ Author Unknown

It is not the critic who counts;
not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled
or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.
The credit belongs to the man
who is actually in the arena,
whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood;
who strives valiantly;
who errs and comes short again and again;
who knows great enthusiasms,
the great devotions;
who spends himself in a worthy cause;
who at the best, knows in the end the triumph of high achievement,
and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while
DARING GREATLY
so that his place shall never be
with those timid souls
who know neither victory or defeat.

Powerful Motivational Quotes

Don't compare yourself with anyone in this world. If you do so, you are insulting yourself
~ ALEN STRIKE

You are not responsible for what people think about you but you are responsible for what you give them to think about you.
~ STANLEY FERRARD

Write your sad times in Sand; Write your Good times in Stone.
~ GEORGE BERNARD SHAW

Behind every successful man, there is an untold pain in his heart.
~ BILL JACOBS

Without your involvement you can't succeed. With your involvement you can't fail.
~ Dr. ABDUL KALAM

Love your job but don't love your Company because you may not know when your company stops loving you.
~ Narayana Moorthy

You may get DELAYED to reach your Targets,
But every step you take towards your target is EQUAL to Victory.
~ KARL MARX

It's better to loose your Ego to the one you Love, than to loose the one you LOVE because of EGO.
~ JOHN KEATS

Don't make promise when you are in JOY. Don't reply when you are SAD.
Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise. BE happy.

When you start caring about yourself, you start loving somebody ,
But when start caring about others somebody will start loving you.

What is the Secret of SUCCESS...? 'RIGHT DECISIONS'
How do you make Right Decisions...? 'EXPERIENCE'
How do you get Experience...? 'WRONG DECISIONS'..

It's a Success to Fail.

As a little child when I wanted to move,
I learned that I should crawl.
Yet when I got on my hand and knees,
Again and again I would fall.

But I rose to my knees, each time I fell,
I was determined to get moving.
With every fall, I learned a better way,
Until finally I started crawling.

Now mommy saw, I was starting to learn,
And thought I needed more.
So from the cradle, I was placed on the floor,
I smiled, and crawled away to explore.

Now one day I saw, up on the table,
Something delicious I wanted to eat.
But unfortunately I couldn’t reach,
And I knew it was time to get on my feet.

Both hands and knees were on the ground,
And I’d try to raise my belly.
Yet gradually as I tried to straighten.
Again and again I would fall.

But I rose to my feet each time I fell,
I was determined to start reaching.
With every fall, I learned a better way,
Until finally I started standing.

Now while I was standing, I wanted to move
But every few steps and I stumbled.
So I spread my hands, against the wall,
Yet again and again I would fall.

But I rose to my feet each time I fell
I was determined to start hiking.
With every fall, I learned a better way,
Until finally I started walking.

All day long I walked and I played,
At last I could have some fun.
The more I walked, the better I got,
Until one day, I could actually run.

Bangs and bruises, were the only pain,
Which brought tears to my eyes.
And with every obstacle that came in my path,
I learned; there was a way around.

Now if that wasn’t plenty to my parent’s dismay,
I would try to climb the chairs.
Over and under, up and down.
Not until I fell and hurt my crown.

Memories of my childhood are still with me,
And it taught me an intelligent lesson.
That falling down is not the end,
But one-step higher to achieving.

I have made mistakes all through my life,
A hundred times I’ve failed.
But with every failure I learned a lesson;
A lesson, saying, "There’s a better way".

From a tiny child that could barely move,
We learned how to roll and crawl.
Yet determined to reach the top,
We learned how to stand and walk.

But we didn’t stop there; we learned to run,
Then we learned how to jump and climb.
So why stop now; the stars aren’t high,
Let’s just spread our wings, and fly.

Trust & Honesty

Introduction :

A true friendship is built on trust and honesty, is able to withstand the test of time, and possesses the capacity of forgiveness.

1. Foundation :
A friendship is built on a solid foundation, which enables it to withstand adversity and conflict. For example, a true friend will understand your underlying feelings in spite of your outward actions.

2. Respect :
Respect is the key to any successful relationship; and without it, there can be no true friendship. For example, a true friend may disagree and share a different opinion in a caring and thoughtful
way, not in a scornful and disdainful manner.

3. Intimacy :
A friendship involves the sharing of personal and intimate information, which is safely held between friends. For example, a true friend will hold a confidence no matter the burden.

4. Enrichment :
A friendship provides a richness to each friend by giving each a sense of value and importance. For example, a true friend is able to give love, compassion, attention, and compliments unselfishly.

5. Nourishment :
A friendship nourishes the soul and makes the heart sing. For example, a true friend knows how to plant seeds and empower in an honest and loving way.

6. Dance :
A friendship resembles a perfectly choreographed and perfectly synchronized dance between two partners. For example, a true friend knows what step you are going to take before you take it.

7. Support :
A friendship provides support during times of need. For example, when you are walking a difficult path, a true friend is there to quietly walk beside you and to give you whatever is needed no matter the circumstances.

8. Harmony :
A friendship is a harmonious bond between human beings where different ideas and thoughts may be freely shared with each friend having the capacity to fully understand. For example, a true friendship involves an honest exchange of ideas without chaos or conflict.

9. Inspiration :
A friendship serves to inspire. For example, a true friend possesses unconditional kindness and love, which inspires others to exemplify the same traits.

10. Partnership :
A friendship is a partnership with both friends working together to create a synergy. For example, an obstacle is more easily and effortlessly overcome with the help of a friend.

Motivational Poem - A Chance To Start

How often we wish for another chance
To make a fresh beginning.
A chance to blot out our mistakes
And change failure into winning.

It does not take a special time
To make a brand-new start,
It only takes the deep desire
To try with all our heart.

To live a little better,
To always be forgiving.
To add a little sunshine,
In a world for which we're living.

Never give up in despair
Nor think you are through,
For there's always a tomorrow,
A chance to start a new.

Some Positive Quotes

You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
~ Dale Carnegie, author

Respond to a difficult situation with creative kindness.
~ Unknown

"All appears to change when we change."
~ Henri-Frédéric Amiel

You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.
~ Rosalynn Carter

The best portion of a good man's life is the little, nameless,
unremembered acts of kindness and love.
~ William Wordsworth

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."
~ Lucille Ball

Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.
~ W. Clement Stone

Motivation is the fuel necessary to keep the human engine running.
~ Zig Ziglar

Fearlessness comes when there is the power of truth. Fearlessness comes when there is the power of truth within us. When we are constantly truthful, we will have nothing to fear. In all the challenges we face everyday we will be able to maintain our faith and courage because of our power of truth. Let us make sure our actions are based on truth and when things go wrong, we will still be able to fearless. We need to keep reminding ourselves that we have the power of truth with us and we will be victorious, whatever may be the challenges that come our way.
~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt Abu.

Sing

Sing, sing, sing. Your voice is music to my ears. Even if you sing as off-key as I do (and that I doubt) your singing is still a wonderful sound. A sound of joy. A sound of life. A sound of stress relief.

It is pretty hard to feel down in the dumps when singing, because just the act of singing lifts the spirits. Like a book or a movie, singing lets your mind escape from you worries. Unlike a book or a movie, your singing is an active escape; you are creating the happiness, not just watching the entertainment.

So sing to your heart's content...because that, too, is what singing can do.

Love is Never Silent

Love is Never Silent
A loving heart, a gentle smile
a warm and tender touch
We give so many things in life
but nothing means as much.
A little inspiration
when one loses hope,
A kind word of encouragement
when they no longer seem to cope.
A simple phrase, "I love you"
when no one else is there
Taking hold onto a hand
in a little heartfelt prayer.
Love is never silent
It has so much to say,
And it is our greatest blessing
when we give it all away.

Spread some love today!

Life

Life is time between birth and death.
Life is a challenge we have to face.
Life is uncertain.
Life is a collection of many experiences,
we can look to wards,
Life positively and in the negative.
though Life is difficult.
it is the greatest thing in the world.

Words Of Wisdom

1. A day without sunshine is like night.

2. On the other hand, you have different fingers.

3. 42.7 percent of all statistics are made up on the spot.

4. 99 percent of lawyers give the rest a bad name.

5. Remember, half the people you know are below average.

6. He who laughs last, thinks slowest.

7. Depression is merely anger without enthusiasm.

8. The early bird may get the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese in the trap.

9. Support bacteria. They're the only culture some people have.

10. A clear conscience is usually the sign of a bad memory.

11. Change is inevitable, except from vending machines.

12. If you think nobody cares, try missing a couple of payments.

13. How many of you believe in psycho-kinesis? Raise my hand.

14. OK, so what's the speed of dark?

15. When everything is coming your way, you're in the wrong lane.

16. Hard work pays off in the future. Laziness pays off now.

17. How much deeper would the ocean be without sponges?

18. Eagles may soar, but weasels don't get sucked into jet engines

19. What happens if you get scared half to death, twice?

20. Why do psychics have to ask you for your name?

21. Inside every older person is a younger person wondering, "What the hell happened?"

22. Just remember -- if the world didn't suck, we would all fall off.

23. Light travels faster than sound. That's why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.

24. Life isn't like a box of chocolates. It's more like a jar of jalapenos.

Inspirational Poem - Nothing to Fear

There's nothing to fear --- you're as good as the best,
As strong as the mightiest, too.
You can win in every battle or test;
For there's no one just like you.
There's only one you in the world today;
So nobody else, you see,
Can do your work in as fine a way:
You're the only you there'll be !

So face the world, and all life is yours
To conquer and love and live:
And you'll find the happiness that endures
In just the measure you give;
There's nothing too good for you to possess,
Nor heights where you cannot go:
Your power is more than belief or guess ---
It is something you have to know.

There is nothing to fear --- you can and you will.
For you are the invincible you.
Set your foot on the highest hill ---
There's nothing you cannot do.

- By Author Unknown

Powerful Inspirational Quotes

Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can't live long enough to make them all yourself
~ Unknown
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The tongue weighs practically nothing, But so few people can hold it.

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It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

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Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

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The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

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Many people will walk in and out or your life, But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart

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To handle yourself, use your head, To handle others, use your heart.

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He who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses more; He who loses faith, loses all.

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If someone betrays you once, it's his fault.
If he betrays you twice, it's your fault.

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God Gives every bird it's food,
But he does not throw it into it's nest.

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Some Inspiring Quotes

Some of the Inspiring Quotes which tell not to give up in life so you can learn something from these Quotes

1) Never expect things to happen. Struggle and make them happen. Never expect yourself to be given a good value create a value of your own.

2) If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity. But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shines like a pearl. So choose the best place where you would shine.

3) Falling down is not defeat. Defeat is when your refuse to get up.

4) Ship is always safe at shore, but is not built for it.

5) When you are successful your well wishers know who you are, when you are unsuccessful you know who your well wishers are.

6) It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults; greater to tell him/her.

7) "To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world.

"Even the word 'IMPOSSIBLE' says 'I M POSSIBLE' ".

9) Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference.

10) Never take some one for granted, Hold every person Close to your Heart, because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones." Remember this always in life.

Inspiring Poem - Believe

Believe
by Tyler Dohrn

What Is There,
To Believe In During Life,
Nothing Lasts,
Aside From Strife,
Life May Perish,
Life May End,
Our Soul We May Give,
Our Soul We May Spend,
But Our Love,
That Eternal Flame,
Will Never Dim,
Will Never Change,
It Will Forever Last,
When All Other Lights Leave,
For You Light My Life,
You Make Me Believe.

Beautiful Positive Thoughts

The more we know, the better we forgive. Whoe'er feels deeply, feels for all that live.
~ Mme. de Stael

Wisdom is knowing what to do next, skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it.
~ David Starr Jordan

The black moment is the moment when the real message of transformation is going to come.

At the darkest moment comes the light.
~ Joseph Campbell

Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.
~ Goethe

A leader has the vision and conviction that a dream can be achieved. He inspires the power and energy to get it done.
~ Ralph Lauren, fashion designer

In the final analysis there is no solution to man's progress but the day's honest work, the day's honest decisions, the day's generous utterances and the day's good deed.
~ Clare Booth Luce

Understand that the right to choose your own path is a sacred privilege.

Use it. Dwell in possibility.
~ Oprah Winfrey

Value

VALUE

"Every man stamps his value on himself... man is made great or small by his own will."

J.C.F. von Schiller had his own way of saying what we now call self-esteem. But really, that is what it is - the value we each place on ourselves.

It really does not matter what others think. They might think we are the greatest thing since sliced bread, but we will not be satisfied if we don't place a strong value on ourselves (which is why people in Hollywood, adored by millions, can still have self-esteem problems).

Or they might think they are God's gift to the planet, even though everyone they meet looks for the shortest route to the nearest exit. Which explains why some lowlife seem to always be showing off.

But most of all, you can put the value you wish on yourself and therefore, you can be as valuable as you wish.